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The Missing Rib đź’‹

​11-27-16 Sunday 1:40 am
A woman or rarity and wholeness. 

Pure and hidden in the hands of God.

I was the missing rib that was removed from his side.

He was put in a deep sleep, being prepared by God.

Just for me.

Those words were once unfathomable.

They remained a dream that hoped for the accompaniment of a vision.
I am the missing rib that is waiting in preparation.

No other part of the rib cage can compare. 

I been anointed to love him, even in the times he can’t see himself as worthy.

What he doesn’t see, is the strength he has.

As a King…
Adam, I can’t complete you. But I definitely will push out your potential.

You don’t see the greater you, and mainly because God is showing you.

He will ultimately get the glory, but He will most definitely show you the creation that you were predestined to be.
As a rib, that’s why part of why I’m waiting.

When he is ready, he will believe on himself again.

His vision and purpose will be complimented by me.

Though I thought I was ready, I became reminded of who chose me in the first place. 

I lost sight of Him, and now I crave to be closer.

Stronger. Bonded with Him.

If I ever lost sight of that, My First Love, I am so sorry.

I’m sorry if you felt neglected and pushed to the side. 

Because of my unawareness.
I’m returning to you My First Love. 

Love me first, and show me who I am.

First as a woman of God.

In Your timing, present me as the missing rib to the sleeping Adam that is in a deep sleep.

I will be waiting, ready as your helpmate.

But I need to be assured that you will do your job in pursuing and protecting me.

I am hidden in God, and I can’t be exposed to anything outside of that.

My prayer is though, that he is more concerned of the things of you, than the desire he is to be loved by his missing rib.


Sleep well, Adam. My prayer is that your mind is filled with sweet and perfect dreams.


Hakeem’s Lyric: Seeking the Bronze Key

September 3, 2016

Hakeem “Wise”

Shaya “God’s Gift”

Below I have written a poem similar to the poetry style of Songs of Solomon in the Bible, except it is more modern day and easy to figure out its symbolic meanings.. Solomon admired every aspect of his bride. Every aspect of her body, her beauty and pursued her through their relationship. In this story, Hakeem is an example of a modern day husband that pursued his wife in every area of their relationship.  I will post on this blog and include the rest of the parts to the poem series that I will post little by little! Follow my blog to be updated and leave a like or comment below to let me know what you thought of the story! Enjoy…

Hakeem… (The Pursuer)

She is a jewel of her own, incomparable to the others. An Isolated Gem.. Complimented with jewelry that enhances her beauty more. She’s so gentle and beautiful. Precious… I gaze upon her beauty, it is so overpowering. I feel weak, in a good way, because all I want to do is serve her, protect her but most importantly lead her. My Beauty. God must have used a detailed blueprint when He made her. Every detail of her face is perfection, and yet perfectly flawed. Each scar, mark, indent and line.

Shaya… (God’s Gift)

I never thought I was worthy when I was accompanied by my beloved. Hidden. Isolated. Forgotten. That’s what I felt like at times. I never was pursued, I never was lead. I desired to be carried away, but most men weren’t strong enough. They did not have the confidence to approach me.  An answered prayer, that was worth the wait I endured through singleness. In his presence, I never felt my time was wasted. Most of it is spent admiring him. His attire represents him as strong. On his right arm, is a tattoo of my name, engraved in a heart. Simple, but classic. I was afraid that soon he would have to bear the pain of having my name; and if we separated, he would be stuck with it permanently. Thank you my beloved, for teaching me how to be strong. Thank you for embracing me even in the midst of my deepest hurts. I couldn’t trust you at first, but you have truly proved me wrong. You never left…

As Solomon once compared his bride, so am I comparing you “Like a lily among thorns is my darling among the young women.” (Song of Solomon 2:2) Nothing out there in the world that is so perfectly held by God as her. You have had suffered a lot of disappointments, but I am here to protect you from ever feeling that with me. Open your heart to me, and reveal the depths of your soul. I desire to explore your hurts, fears and disappointment; I can’t make them go away, but I will hold you thru it all. I am not your strength, but we both know who grants it to us.

Fight is all we know. The trials we have endured together since the beginning…oh, how hard they seemed at first. Yet, they put to death the fear and the hurt we once knew. It allowed us to cleave, as one. To fight, as one. To struggle, as one. Three cords are not easily broken.

Prior to meeting her, all I knew was fight and all she knew was pain. Well, they are both one in the same. Though her struggles were quite different than mine. Hers kept herself locked in a box covered with roses and leaves and she was afraid to come out. I lacked faith for a while because I thought I never would be able to see her. The key was misplaced, and when I found it, it was distorted.

In the beginning I precaution him. “Don’t open the box. You don’t know what lies inside.” If he knew, he wouldn’t go any further. There was darkness and fear. That’s why the key was distorted, because others had glanced upon the rose decorative box but didn’t realize something so ugly could be lying inside the box.The trespassers purged their way through, and jacked up the key. Neither could they open it. The cry for help frightened them and they proceeded no further, dropping the key in various places.

Her Father gave me the key…that was the only way…I spent so much time searching for it. He put it right in my sight; a dull bronze key lied within His hand. “This is to be treasured. If you cannot treasure it, I will have to ask for it back.” His last reply made me think. I really had to be careful, this wasn’t any ordinary key. The key was to her heart.

Sharper Meaning: The Passionate Soul & the Beating Heart

heart-and-soul-healing-summit.pngThe soul is music, singing out the passion of itself, never out of tune. The heart is the sound of beating love, which has its different rhythms and loses its melody in the search for a song.

The soul dances in the rain alone and is content with itself, always having faith throughout the momentary struggles. The heart is a sunny day that runs through the sand of the beach, but never appreciates true beauty of the scenery.

The soul is a spouse who pursues and loves you, no matter what. The heart is a who significant other doesn’t know exactly how they feel about the other.

The heart has mixed feelings about what love truly is, while the soul knows who LOVE is.

The soul is a season of winter that enjoys the peace of the quiet. But the heart is the season of spring, when flowers bloom until the entering of summer when they slowly fade away.

Also I wanna say I appreciate the recent support that has been taking place! There’s been a lot of views on this poem, up to 5 times a day, it’s crazy. specifically more than any other poem on my blog! I appreciate the and I would love your feedback/comments/likes so I can get to know my audience. If this poem has inspired you, please drop your comments below and tell me how it has blessed you 🙂

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Prayers for my Future Husband: Our Marriage Roles

Lord I ask right now for safety upon my future husband. I thank you for the man of God that you have for me. I pray that we both will play the roles in our marriage that you have asked us to be. I pray he will be the head of the household, God. And that he wont lead just because, but he will know its what you have called him to be; I pray he will understand his purpose in leadership and that you will prepare him for it daily. I ask you Lord to give him the ability to interact and socialize with our children; I pray he will be emotional and sensitive with them and that he will always be a listening ear and a helping hand. I pray for the both of us so we will be able to raise our kids in Your ways.
  I pray for myself Lord, that I will be submissive unto him as he is to Christ. I pray I can be his helper in the household and also in ministry. I pray I can assist him in the ways you expect Lord. I thank you for the beautiful marriage we have ahead. And I ask that you will guide and lead us everyday to be the roles of a Godly husband & wife. Thank you Lord, wow I’m so grateful for what you have ahead. Change our hearts and prepare us for each other. Thank you, in Your Beautiful Name I pray, amen

Submit to Your Husbands (For Singles & Wives)

Sisters, I recently attended a conference and the woman who was teaching us spoke about how at this singles event at her church, the men actually said they desire to marry women who THEY can LEAD. Men of God are called to lead you once you become their wife. They are called to be spiritual leaders and the heads of the households. We are supposed to submit to our husbands (and they submit to Christ). While in our singleness, pray all of us will learn to submit to Christ first so we will be prepared to submit to our husbands. It is okay to let a man lead you! Once you get married you must stop trying to be in control of everything. From the first day you meet him, let him go forth in his calling. #Submission